Monday, June 29, 2009

moving sux

I hate it. I hate it all.

I hate moving. I hate packing. I hate the person I have to become to get anything done. I have one day off, we have to be out of here within 2 days. She hasn't contacted me about how to get the keys. NOTHING.

I slept in. Shouldn't have, but I did. I woke up, my right leg is asleep and slighly numb (2 hours later still) Oh yeah, I can't get it fixed because the lady who hit me didn't carry bodily injury coverage. I'M SCREWED.

So, I've been working for 2 hours. Doing the kitchen, had the girls doing odd jobs trying to pack up stuff to get it out of this house. Well, I'm just in a bad mood I guess cause there is NOTHING nice that I want to say about my family right now.

We're moving. No, it's not pleasant...no it's not carefree and fun.

I have many words that would make a salior blush going thru my head.

i'm gonna walk away now...

Thursday, June 25, 2009

As the world falls down

ok, it's been a WONDERFUL month hasn't it...

I'm over it... I don't want to go on. I'm so completely done with all life has thrown at me...

I've been on the verge of tears since this stupid accident occured.
From not being able to get my van fixed, to the attorney not talking to me. Then today I got a letter in the mail. Since there can not be a recovery in my case, they are closing my file. So long, far well, auf weidersehn.

I'm so sick of hearing about blood from a turnip....blood from a turnip.

my kids need "under clothing" and I don't have the money for it.

I'm so angry...

Friday, June 12, 2009

Medicaid

cruel joke...

Take baby to hospital.

Baby throws fit.

Baby embarresses the non-embarressable mother.

Baby has nasty ear infection.

Mommy gets prescription.

Mommy goes to drop off script at CVS.

CVS lady says "I'm sorry, you don't have coverage any more"

mommy so needs a massage.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Explain

Maybe I should explain my /facepalm.

I'm anxiety ridden. I hate driving now, but still like to get out of the house. We JUST bought a van-and we don't know how well it would work to get thru 3 states. I want April to come down and visit, but with everything going on right now, I don't know if I could handle it.

I have work, and I have chiro appointments.
I have a lot of worry and anger about the accident. I don't want to think about it, but I find that there are times when I obsess about it. 2 feet I'd be injured...3 feet I'd be dead. I know it wasn't my time, and usually I'm the one who's all "It happened for a reason" and all that, but not this time. I just keep thinking "why me". What did I do? What reason? Our van was a good van. She was paid for. Now, I've missed 3 days of work, we've had to buy a new-to-us van, and now we're spending LOADS of money on gas to get me to and from appointments. I'm in a constant ache SOMEWHERE on my body at all times. I complain too much, and yet it doesn't seem like enough. It sucks.

So, now we don't have money to pay the rent this month, or the mortgage on the next place. I don't have money for the water bill deposit, and I don't have money for the electric deposit. I bought groceries this week, and I'll be able to pay the water and electric bill. I put gas in the car so I could get to work and my chiro appointments.

kids are complaining about being "bored" with Tv. Wait until they don't have cable at the new place. I'm not going to deal with it. They wanna complain about being "bored"....they'll see what's up. I'm over everything. I find myself more angry lately. Earlier I cried-for seemingly no reason. I sucked it up real quick and no one noticed, but still, this is how it's going. Anxiety attacks are mounting. I had a full fledged attack the other day. Chest pains, wanting to cry, then crying. eh...guess I'm just going to suck it up and deal with it. Even if I have PTSD or something like it-not like I can get help for it. We don't have insurance, cause they would bend me over and take out $250 a week. Talk about crazy. How would we live on that? It's hard enough to live on what I do make and bring home. So, we get screwed all around. Kids have medicaid...but the adults get screwed. They have down that I get child support...there's a funny joke right? Child support? What is that? I recieve child support-it's called 72 hours a week at Brandon Health and Rehabilitation Center. It's not just child support, it's spouse support, self support, cat support, house support, van support, geico support, TECO support, BOCC support, Brighthouse support. Yeah...I bust my butt to pay the bills.

My kids have just lost cable priveledges. I bust my butt (as I just said) to pay for cable, so they don't have to "be bored" and all I heard this morning was whining and complaining about how boring the shows are. Hmmm, remember 2 months ago when we didn't have cable? Wow, how ungrateful can you be? No more cable for them. The only cable TV in this house is in my room. I pay for it, I'm watching it. I'm done-I'm over it. I'm overly done. this is my /facepalm....this is why I can't get April-because I'm so stressed out. I don't need a break-I need a hug.

Monday, June 1, 2009

April

/facepalm


april




Here she is....suppose to come visit for a few weeks this summer.